Trading friendship bracelets has become one of the most beloved traditions at Taylor Swift shows, inspired by the lyric in “You Belong With Me.” If you’ve never made one before, here’s a simple, beginner-friendly way to get started so you have a stack ready to trade before the show.
What you need to get started
You only need a few basic supplies: pony beads (the plastic, letter-friendly kind), elastic cord or stretchy string, and a pair of scissors. Letter beads are the key piece since they let you spell out song titles, lyrics, and era names. Craft stores and online retailers both sell affordable multi-packs that include hundreds of beads in one box.
Pick your beads and pattern
Decide on a color scheme before you start stringing. Many fans match colors to a specific era, pastel for Lover, black and gold for Reputation, deep red for Red. Lay your letter beads out in order first so you can count how many spacer beads you need on each side to keep the bracelet centered and symmetrical.
String the bracelet
Cut a piece of elastic cord long enough to wrap around your wrist twice, then thread your beads on in order. Leave a couple of inches of slack so the bracelet isn’t too tight, then tie a secure double or triple knot. Trim the extra cord close to the knot and, if you want extra durability, add a small dot of clear glue on the knot before it dries.
Popular lyric and phrase ideas
Some of the most traded phrases include song titles like “Cardigan” or “Delicate,” era names like “1989” or “Folklore,” and short lyrics that fit on a single bracelet. Simple options work best since they’re quick to make in bulk, plan on making far more than you think you’ll need since trading tends to go fast.
Trading etiquette at the show
The unwritten rule is simple: if someone offers you a bracelet, offer one back, and a smile or quick compliment goes a long way. Bring a variety of styles so you have options for different people, and don’t be discouraged if you run out early, extra bracelets can always be worn stacked on your own wrist.
The quick recap
Grab pony beads and elastic cord, plan your colors and letters, string and knot each bracelet securely, and bring more than you think you’ll need. A stack of homemade bracelets is one of the easiest and most affordable ways to join in on the fun before the show even starts.